What's instant removal of a person from a relationship?
What's the end of the road, burn the bridge and no turning back for most people.
For myself, it's lack of TRUST.
My relationship experience has been a bit more extensive then I would wish for. Much like most people, I'm sure you can relate... young, stupid, poor decisions, just trying to be loved, for some just never trying to be alone!
This is one of the many of society's traps, always requiring to feel like you belong somewhere.
In my experience, it's better to be alone then in the wrong company.
You see, your environment is way more important then your need to be loved. But that's another story.
The most important factor of any relationship is trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with... it DOES NOT MATTER how much you love them.
Trust is what protects the relationship.
Say you're a hard working partner, male or female. You dedicate your time and life to becoming better for your future family and lover then you get questioned about your trust to the particular relationship. No matter how small.
How would this make your feel? Knowing you're risking everything to create a dream life for you, this person and your family.
You see trustworthy people, that pride themselves on their name and respect take complete offence to this. So they should.
Efficient people who have very little time are even worse off, because allot of energy and strength is being used elsewhere.
My advice would be to take a holistic look at your partner, see what they really do for you. Sometimes you may not even see what they do for you... at work.. traveling long hours.. working over lunch and late, cooking dinner and supporting you through the hard times.
Remember these times, for these are the building blocks of relationships.
You will see soon enough that the prime who are with you through the worst, deserve your trust. You'll never question it again.
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